Within this episode, Dita and you can Dajana means the fresh questionable subject away from relationship/marrying away from Albanian society
Inside extremely expected material, Dita and Dajana method the topic away from both factors out of viewpoints that’s: the comfort and you can familiarity off relationships/marrying into the society, and acceptance and delightful expansion of your own people which is due to relationship/marrying outside of it. They read out an email sent off an effective listener whom offers their story from dating a beneficial Latino male in wonders for 5 many years and how it has affected their dating prior to now, and you will requests for advice on how to deal with that it unavoidable material together family unit members because the she’s prepared to has actually a premier-peak union which have him in the future. Dita and Dajana show their relationships experience with non-Albanian boys and you can explain why they by themselves avert regarding relationships Albanian boys. They discuss the pro’s and you can con’s that include which. They dissect the taboo subject of the insights as to the reasons Albanians be which nuts pressure up to now/marry inside their people, along with difficulty that it to the-going and you may dated foregone conclusion by concentrating on the beauty that include having the liberty at this point/marry Who you Love without having to face people outcomes such as for instance to be shunned, singled-away, talked about otherwise-terrible case condition- are “disowned”. As to why cannot i accept all people no matter race, religion, sex, and you will people and commence to decide which i have a premier-top commitment that have simply about how exactly it like and you will cure all of us? Exactly why is it so hard for Albanians to know the notion you to definitely “outsiders” are just as desperate to show the newest Albanian people and you may indulge themselves within it? Worries that Albanians has actually out of “losing” their community/lifestyle due to the people broadening the limits simply exhibits the latest anxiety on the reality of the rejecting people who perform intend to date/get married outside the community. Exactly how will they be designed to display their culture with regards to the new-receive partner/relatives for individuals who ignore them in advance of they may be able begin to create very? As to the reasons can’t Albanians play with the rigorous trust out-of a strict-knit family members ethical thereby applying that to people exactly who time/wed beyond the neighborhood to help you greeting them with open palms and permit those who commonly Albanian to incorporate the brand new culture just like the really?
In this occurrence, Dita and you may Dajana strategy this new debatable subject away from relationship/marrying away from Albanian society
In this highly asked question, Dita and you will Dajana means the topic out-of both affairs out of views that is: the coziness and you may familiarity regarding relationships/marrying in the people, therefore the desired and beautiful extension of the society that’s due to dating/marrying outside it. It read out a contact sent out of an excellent listener whom offers her facts away from matchmaking a beneficial Latino men when you look at the magic for five years and exactly how it has affected its relationship in past times, and you will asks for strategies for how to deal with it unavoidable situation together family due to the fact she is prepared to has a top-peak union which have your down the road. Dita and you will Dajana show her dating experience with low-Albanian men and you can identify as to why they by themselves prevent off matchmaking Albanian men. They discuss the pro’s and you will con’s that include so it. It dissect ab muscles forbidden topic of the expertise as to why Albanians be which crazy stress at this point/marry within people, and additionally complications so it towards-going and you may outdated foregone conclusion from the emphasizing the beauty that include getting the versatility to date/marry Who you Love without the need to face people outcomes such as for example as being shunned, singled-away, talked about otherwise-terrible instance situation- are “disowned”. Why are unable to we take on everyone aside from battle, religion, intercourse, and you can society and start to determine which we have a top-height connection with merely regarding how they like and you may clean out us? Why is it so difficult to possess Albanians to understand the notion you to “outsiders” are just because the wanting to share the fresh new Albanian people and you will pamper by themselves within it? Driving a car you to definitely Albanians possess off “losing” their community/way of life as a result of the neighborhood growing their perspectives merely exhibits brand new fear on the facts by rejecting those who would intend to date/wed beyond your society. How are they designed to show the culture with their the newest-discover companion/nearest and dearest if you avoid them in advance of they’re able to beginning to create very? As to the reasons can not Albanians use its rigorous religion off a rigid-knit family relations moral and apply you to to the people exactly who day/get married outside of its people in order to acceptance all of them with unlock palms and enable those who commonly Albanian to incorporate the latest culture since better?